They always say there is nothing to fear but fear itself. It clearly isn`t totally true, but there are situations where you get yourself more in a stew worrying than is entirely necessary. Get a grip of your concerns, look at the bottom line, and you will find it all becomes much easier thereafter. You do have the incentive for improving your surroundings or life situations. But you will have to move cautiously. Try tact not foot stamping for best results.